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Creating Lasting Memories

by Marlon on August 7, 2011

What do you remember from your childhood?

I can remember a dozen memories that are forever engrained in my memory.

I remember how my brother Sean and I would play a game of counting the most out-of-state license plates while we were on a family trip.

I even remember when my Mom would bathe Sean and I in the same bath tub.  When I return home now, it’s hard to believe that both of us could fit in that bath tub together.

Jade, Cory & Dad creating a lasting memory

The reason that I ask what your childhood memories are is because we as parents have a responsibility to create lasting memories for our children.

Just the other day, I bathed Jade and Cory in the same bath tub.  For me, it brought back memories to how my Mom would bathe my brother Sean and me.  Now will this be a significant memory for Jade and Cory?  I’m not sure but one thing is for sure…  It’s wonderful to pause and be fully conscious to what’s happening right now in the moment.

Unfortunately, many people are so “busy” that they never slow down to enjoy the “moment.”  I encourage you to be intentional with how you are living life because once a day is gone, it’s gone.

Yesterday, it was raining hard and as Jade, Cory and I looked out the window, a thought crossed my mind… “Why not go outside on the porch and sitting on the rocking chairs?”

And that’s exactly what we did.

We just enjoyed the moment together on the porch.

It may seem simple but in so many ways, it was priceless.

I encourage you to create lasting memories NOW.

Give this gift to you, your children and your family.

So what do you remember the most from your childhood?

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Creating Lasting Memories

by Marlon on April 19, 2011

This morning, my wife Syreeta and I decided to do something that was Important but not Urgent.

There’s a lot to do today with our businesses as we prepare for an upcoming trip.  So we were both feeling some anxiety about whether or not we will have enough time to get “everything” done.

Can you relate?

However, instead of “rushing” to do work, we did something different.

Jade & Cory's morning Adventure

We decided to take a morning walk with our children, Jade and Cory.

Isn’t it really amazing how fast time moves?

Jade is now 4 and Cory just turned 1.

During our walk, I shared with Syreeta how I have specific memories from my childhood.  Although I don’t remember a lot, I do remember a few specific instances while in elementary school and during certain family trips.

So what about you?

Do you remember any specific experiences from your early childhood?

It’s amazing how we can vividly remember certain experiences that took place, 20, 30 or 40 years.

I’m not sure if this walk will be a memory that Jade and Cory will remember forever.  But one thing is for sure… today will always be special to me because I put truly “first things first” by making a conscious effort to spend quality time with my family.

Now it’s time to get to my “busy” list of work.  And although there’s a lot for me to do today, I’m smiling now because I was conscious and intentional in creating a special memory for my family this morning.

This family walk may be forgotten tomorrow but today, it makes the world of difference!

Do share what you are doing to create “Lasting” memories!

Post your comment here because we are excited to hear from you.

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A Special Way to Reinforce the NEW Beginning of 2011

January 3, 2011

Yesterday, on January 2nd, some families came together to create their Family Goals Affirmation Collage! It was truly a wonderful experience as parents and children cut pictures from various magazines and assembled them onto a poster board. Hearing children and parents share their reasons for cutting specific pictures was touching because through this “simple” exercise, [...]

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Keeping Thanksgiving Alive – The “BLESSINGS Board”

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A few weeks ago, we were all getting ready for Thanksgiving! Do you remember the excitement? How much do you enjoy Thanksgiving? News reports indicate that the busiest time of the year for travel is during Thanksgiving! And why is this? It’s because Thanksgiving is the time when many families and friends come together with [...]

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How Important Is a First Impression?

November 5, 2010

You Never Get a Second Chance to Make a First Impression When a person walks into a room, how long does it take to for you to form your first impression? What do you think? What is it? The answer is: “Just 7.3 seconds!” Yes, you heard me correctly… “Just 7.3 seconds!” So why is [...]

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Devotional – Parenting

September 17, 2010

What Do You Most Remember From Your Childhood? “Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6 As I reflect on my life, there are memories that will last forever.  Even from my childhood, some 35+ years ago, I can vividly [...]

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Last Day Of School… Now What?

June 4, 2010

Today, as I was driving my daughter Jade to school, I started thinking, “Where did this school year go?” She has grown up so much over these last 9 months that it’s truly incredible.  Recently, she said, “Mommy, this food is delicious!”  I started laughing because I couldn’t believe my baby girl said the word, [...]

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Making Time to Connect

May 26, 2010

Yesterday, I had an incredible breakthrough.  To me, it was a priceless moment. I was writing in my journal as Jade, my 3-year-old daughter, played on the swings and the slide in the backyard. As I watched her, I had a revelation, “Marlon, you are a father!” Some of you may be thinking, “You are [...]

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Upcoming High School Reunion Makes Me Reflect

May 13, 2010

WOW!  I still can’t believe it… It was 25 years ago when I graduated from high school.  In July 2010, my class, the Class of ’85, will be celebrating our 25 year reunion. It’s hard to believe… 25 years ago I graduated from high school.  Where did the time go… so fast? My friends and [...]

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To All My Mommies

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On the heels of Mothers Day, I feel compelled to write about parenting, children and motherhood for all my moms out there.  The job as a mother requires many things. And only on Mothers day do we really get to see and hear about all the wonderful and disgusting things we do.   Yesterday, as I read [...]

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